Author Charles Harry explains how to break the cycle and find your soul mate
(PRWEB) June 13, 2005 -- What are you doing?" was the common phrase uttered by almost every news personality as they sat and interviewed Charles Harry; author of the man manual, ‘Confessing with girls; money, lies, sex and insensitive men (Bertram & Knott, June 2005). From Marylands Ocean 98 to Springfield, Illinois Molson and Lee show, Harry was put on the spot time after time and asked to explain why he was giving away all of mens secrets. If youre a man, you can take it," was Harrys settled-on response.
The notion that some women seem to fall into a pattern of dating insensitive men had me perplexed," Harry says. Why does it happen? Is it because some women are insecure with one aspect of themselves or another? Partially. You'll find it has more to do with the duplicitousness of some men."
According to Harry, men who are not out to impress anyone typically are honest, confident, at ease and unapologetic. They dont care how they come across because they dont care what you think. Unfortunately, if a man is impartial to how you feel about him, chances are he is not interested in you one way or the other. But that wont stop them from sleeping with you or getting into a relationship with you. It just means they can never truly love you. On the other hand, men who seem awkward, shy or gracious around you could have potential feelings that could lead to love. Unfortunately, women are attracted to the former not the latter. Hence, many women fall for the masculine charms of men who just dont care enough about them.
The answer, Harry says, is to find a man who balances both confidence and honesty with awkwardness and graciousness. Not easy. But thats why the search for a soul mate takes time. Its worth it in the end, Harry affirms. If you choose to get involved with men who exude charm and confidence one hundred percent of the time, be prepared to discover that hes insensitive.
An unexpected side effect from writing the book has been a flurry of emails to Harry from women searching for relationship advice. The book does have some interesting truths about men and their ways," he says. But it is first and foremost a novel for entertainment. Needless to say I directed the ladies to seek out a real relationship counsellor."
‘Confessing with girls: money, lies, sex and insensitive men (ISBN#0973409835) will be released June 30, 2005 and be available in bookstores nationwide.
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